Note: This article was originally published in Scuba Diving magazine and can be found in the May 2025 print issue of the magazine.
I’m 40 feet (12 meters) below the surface when my heartbeat starts to throb in my throat. Though the water is velvet black and clings to me like a rash guard, it isn’t the darkness that leaves a metallic tang on my tongue. It isn’t even that I’m at the back of our small group, a reef shark gliding in and out of my periphery like a leopard in the shadows.
Instead, my inability to settle and focus has everything to do with the cone of light in front of me and the myriad life it reveals. Tonight, I have traded my strobes for a single Kraken video light. It sits atop my camera housing like a lighthouse, its white beam shattering the dark to illuminate sea slugs that look like lettuce leaves, a rose-colored juvenile scallop frantically waving its opaque tentacles, crinoid shrimp on feather stars, and tiny larval fish that dart in and out of my light beam to feed on plankton.
Palau has stunned me. I expected healthy reefs and plenty of sharks, but not walls bursting to life like forests from Avatar. Rocks bloom with anemones and anemonefish. Endless purple anthias and bug-eyed cardinalfish obscure the smaller corals, and sea fans the color of blood orange rind weave complex nets between it all.
At the end of each dive, I pick up the planner I created for writing assignments, and in the “Emotional State” section, I jot down variations of the word happy: “content, calm, thrilled, can’t stop smiling!”
Night dives need a different word.
“Explosive,” I write after my dive at Turtle Cove. On this dive, I exit the water and remove my mask. As I do, tiny iridescent-red octopuses plop to the deck like beads from a broken necklace.
“Candy!” my guide Ike scolds affectionately. He kneels and starts returning them to the water. One, two, three… I stop counting after the eighth.
My boyfriend tells me I looked as though I were diving inside a living cloud. Sure enough, my rash guard and camera still crawl with plankton — krill, copepods, tiny isopods, and who knows what else.
A Different Kind of Christmas
A month before the trip to Palau, my mother texts.
“Can’t wait to see you, old Canz,” she says. “We can work on our novels together.”
My heart sinks. Though not particularly religious, our family has always spent Christmas together. No matter where we are, my sisters and I fly home. Sometimes it’s a vacation rental on the wild Oregon coast; other times, a house near vineyards outside Portland. It’s become our tradition.
Overwhelmed with guilt, I tell her Stephen and I won’t be joining this year. Instead, we’ll fly to Palau and spend Christmas on a liveaboard with 16 strangers, likely without internet or cell service.
As excited as I am to dive these distant waters, I wonder why I chose Christmas of all times. It helps to remember that this will be Stephen’s first holiday without his mother, who passed unexpectedly in November. Maybe it’s better for us to be somewhere new, to keep busy, to be distracted by activity. Maybe it will help us heal.
A Whirlwind Land Tour
When we arrive in Palau, our passports are stamped with the Palau Pledge. It spans a full page and may be the smartest entry stamp I’ve seen: a series of stanzas encouraging visitors to protect Palau, its people and its environment.
Our hotel shuttle weaves from the airport on Babeldaob through the quiet streets of historic Koror on Koror Island, then across the Didall Causeway to Ngerkebesang Island. I’m struck by how wild these islands feel, despite being inhabited since 2500 BC.
From our chalet at Palau Carolines Resort, the view is stunning — coconut palms, lush hills, hibiscus flowers and the ocean. Even in daylight, crickets and frogs are in full chorus, while birds trill nonstop.
To explore Babeldaob, we rent a car. The roads are quiet, speed limits low, and we rely on my fold-out Franko Maps guide for both navigation and history. It leads us to Ngatpang Tabecheding and Ngardmau waterfalls. Though both are beautiful, we joke that Ngardmau should come with a black-diamond warning. It’s a steep hike requiring plenty of water — and a refreshing dip in the pond below.
Driving around Babeldaob takes us an entire day. In addition to our two muddy waterfall treks, we stop to photograph World War II iron ruins and visit the Badrulchau Stone Monoliths, squinting to spot which rocks have faces carved into them.
The day before we board the boat, we visit Belau National Museum. It’s fascinating, and Stephen and I spend a couple of hours poring over Palau’s history of colonization, its culture and recent archaeological discoveries on Babeldaob.
Outside, a reconstructed bai — a traditional village meeting house — steals the show. Painted bright yellow and adorned with sharks, fish, canoeing figures and other symbols, it underscores how deeply connected this culture is to the ocean. Incense wafts from inside, and I watch as Stephen reads every word on the plaque, completely engrossed.
More Than Diving
The liveaboard is decked out in tinsel, baubles and a small Christmas tree near the bar, but the real showstopper is Chef Ramil’s food. On the first day, he fries up turon — Filipino banana rolls that are sweet, crunchy and irresistible. I beg him to make more before the trip ends.
We sleep and dine on the liveaboard but dive from a smaller skiff. Captain Ike runs the mothership, while Jake, our skiff captain, bobs to music at the wheel and skillfully navigates the narrow arches and rocky outcroppings of the Rock Islands. It’s hard to decide what to film — the dramatic scenery or Jake’s swinging disco moves.
On Christmas Day, Ike hands each of us a present. It’s a box of Palauan chocolate that tastes like the malty Milo drink of my childhood. Stephen eats most of it, while I — never a sweet tooth — prefer to let curling fumes of coffee bring me back to consciousness.
This morning, we have two options. We can dive, or we can take a tour of Peleliu Island, the site of a major World War II battle between U.S. and Japanese troops. We pick the tour, and Jake ferries us in. We visit an airfield, overgrown tanks, guns high in the hills, and a few bombed buildings, each reclaimed by nature in a haunting yet strangely beautiful way.
Finally, we venture into the Peleliu caves. Stephen is so tall he’s first to knock his head on the roof and thus first to discover what fellow passenger Jonas tells us are tailless whip scorpions. Thankfully, they don’t sting. I’m relieved to exit the cave after finding a human bone in the midst of a stash of broken sake bottles and half-melted shell casings.
Outside the cave, a small hotel provides internet, and everyone checks in with family. Stephen calls his father. I send WhatsApp messages. My parents and sisters are thrilled to hear from me.
Back on board we savor Ramil’s Christmas sushi lunch before gearing up for our first dive at Orange Beach Coral Garden, a site littered with World War II relics: old Coke bottles, mounds of bullets, artillery shells and the remains of an M18 Hellcat tank, so overgrown with corals and algae it may as well be reef. A giant clam as large as a war chest holds me just as captive, its golden-brown mantle undulating like surface swell.
Magical Memories
Of all the sites we dive, two stand out: Ulong Channel and Sandy Paradise.
Ulong Channel begins as a wall dive. We hook into rocks and watch cigar-shaped sharks glide by. One reef shark has a lead weight dangling from its mouth. It swims closer than the rest. I suspect it wants help, but unsure how to give it safely, I do the only thing I can — I take a photo. My heart aches for it.
After 20 minutes, we unhook and, as a group, drift through the channel. Jonas and his buddy Heath lag behind us, delayed because Jonas is filming a school of barracuda. The barracuda look like models posing for a shoot. Muted sunlight glitters across their silver scales, and they hang motionless as he records.
When the guides warn us to avoid nesting triggerfish, I feel I’m traversing a field of land mines. Their circular sand nests, marked by small coral piles, are fiercely protected territory. I’m more wary of these cat-size fish than I am any shark.
We also see dozens of camouflage grouper bustling across the reef floor. They ignore us completely.
Near the end of the channel, I squeal through my regulator. Stephen turns in alarm, and I gesture ahead to where layer upon layer of lettuce coral rises like a sunken citadel, sprawling and spiraled, rimmed in cappuccino-colored froth. Bream and cardinalfish hover above the blooms, wavering like flags over a city. I motion Stephen into position for a photo, but no image can capture the scale, or the play of light. It’s the largest coral colony I’ve seen in my life.
At Sandy Paradise, I know we’re in for a treat. It’s a new moon, exactly when bumphead parrotfish spawn. This is a spectacle people travel to witness.
Sure enough, just beyond the reef, hundreds of bumphead parrotfish hover 50 feet (15 meters) below the surface. In this way, when they spawn, their offspring will be out of reach of any reef predators.
What follows is mesmerizing: a fireworks display underwater. When a female is suitably impressed, she breaks away and zooms toward the surface. Male parrotfish chase her, surging upward in a blur of motion, their gametes trailing behind like streaks of smoke. Then—woosh—they burst apart, leaving a starburst of milky trails in their wake before rejoining the group. It repeats again and again, and each of us is spellbound.
I turn to look for Stephen and find he’s watching me. He forms a tiny heart with his thumb and fingertip. He doesn’t use this gesture often underwater, but when he does, I know it means so much more than “I love you.” It also says, “I’m happy. I’m present. This is special.”
My eyes blur for a moment as I return it. We might not skip another family Christmas anytime soon, but right now we are creating a few traditions of our own.
Need to Know for Diving in Palau
Operator: Palau Aggressor II
Water Temperature: The average water temperature is about 82°F (28°C) year-round.
What To Bring: A rash guard or 3 mm wetsuit is ideal. Consider bringing a marine rescue GPS for safety in the sometimes strong currents. I use a Nautilus LifeLine. Reef Hooks are provided.
When To Go: Palau offers spectacular diving year-round, with seasonal highlights. From December to March, manta ray mating season offers the chance to see 20 to 30 mantas at once. February and March are ideal for spotting large schools of Moorish idols, unicornfish and butterflyfish. Massive bait balls of scad can be seen throughout the year at Ulong Channel, German Channel and Blue Corner.
Cost: Trips aboard Palau Aggressor II start at around USD $3,735 per person for a seven-night itinerary, including accommodations, meals, diving and airport transfers. Nitrox is available for an additional fee.
Airport: Roman Tmetuchl International Airport (ROR)
Tipping: Tips are not included in the trip price. A gratuity of 10 to 15 percent of the trip cost is customary and can be given in cash or charged to a credit card at the end of the trip.
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